Don't withhold what you don't need - you can only watch one television on the time. What's with TVs in every hallway even in the bathroom too? Your garage is filled cars however you are located in debt. Get your priorities right and convert some assets into financial. When your head comes from under the waters, you will still buy newer, modern versions with the same stuff you are holding onto. Sell off extra assets which you do not necessarily and critically need. Things you can do without or items that can certainly cover a large chunk of the debt get. What good is there in having many assets and yet losing a great name. Your assets may well buy back the credibility your name needs.
The living trust Marilyn and George created specified two new trusts, referred to as an A/B trust, and will be set up when their early spouse perished. The living trust also specified that (a) the surviving spouse would serve as trustee in the "B" trust